There fixed forces that could never be control in life.  it is the indepedent variable in living science. 

 The force is Women. Women, are complicated spicies, they are above reasoning and reality, on top of that. they don't want to be recognized (as said by U-dom Thapanid). Women don't like it when you catch them. They would feel like their mirage boundery had been collapsed and that their private teritory had been invaded.  Iron rule: never let her know that you know what she is up to. but on the opposite, let her know you know what she is up to when you have no clue at all. in other words, keep her guessing that we do not know .

:D

But all in all. we still love you. men are also a weird kind of creature. the more difficult things get, the more interrested it is. men and women are inseparatable. when the two components intervine, the out come of the equation will equal to zero, or aka. the absolute perfect number. no lose, no gain, fair fair. 

My honey once taught me. that the opposite of hate is not love. and the opposite of love is not hate. the opposition really lies in the middle. when nothing exist. when you dont' love, you don't hate. and vise versa.

but these two components keep things in balance. just like terrains where there's a mountain, there's a hill and slopes and steeps. nothing is flat. a flat plain is the scary one. usually it reminds me of a desert or a thundra climate where nothing grows and everything dies. things are the same here. when there's no ups or down, and it is at plain zero. that is the true opposite of every component. 

back to the loving and hating topic. at ground zero, at the centre point. where the two meets halfway. that is the true essence of opposition. to not feel or to be at Zero is the most constant and sure position. once you lose nothing, you gain nothing. 

it might sound bad from a point of view. but constant things aren't always that bad. Master Kuhle once said, "when things are at a constant, they do-not-change, and is very predictable. once it is not a constnat, then you are in trouble."

to keep it simple. if you want certainty (which is so hard to find our short little life) i would want to bet it on the love component that people have for each other. 

finally, i want to say that i really love my honey ><. although we had soo many conflicts that come to hand, but we could always pull through, using our constant unchaging component. I believe, my destiny lies with her. and that is what i wanted it to be. we just exceeds 6 month, and this is the document of prove.

to all the readers, thank you for reading, and hope you find your constant value. when you do, get hold of it, and don't lose sight. 

15/4/09